You are responsible for all that you do, all that you don't do, and the consequences thereof.
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Monday, December 22, 2014
Uh, oh. Out of stuff.
Erm... I ran out of stuff to link...
Currently playing King's Bounty games (on steam), because I enjoy them despite their flaws. Don't really want to make a post on them though.
*sigh* Sorry.
Currently playing King's Bounty games (on steam), because I enjoy them despite their flaws. Don't really want to make a post on them though.
*sigh* Sorry.
Saturday, December 20, 2014
Thursday, December 18, 2014
Tuesday, December 16, 2014
Sunday, December 14, 2014
Friday, December 12, 2014
I Don't Play Video Games Anymore. I Wait For Them.
http://kotaku.com/i-dont-play-video-games-anymore-i-wait-for-them-1665496091
This is why my PS3 doesn't have internet access. It can't make me wait for updates to download if it doesn't know there are any.
This is why my PS3 doesn't have internet access. It can't make me wait for updates to download if it doesn't know there are any.
Wednesday, December 10, 2014
Monday, December 08, 2014
Why I don't feel loved.
It's really quite simple: My flaws are a deep part of who I am, and everyone wants to fix me.
I didn't really understand it when I was younger, but I do now: Everything people have all praised me for, exists because of everything people condemn me for. My flaws aren't just a part of the whole package. They are largely responsible for why I am who I am. I wouldn't be me without them.
My high perception? My ability to notice and remember details most don't? That's because I'm very sensitive to stimuli, and it's why I hate taking showers or baths and have crappy hygiene.
My high intelligence and knowledge? That's largely because I can't focus on anything I'm not interested in. I can't make myself do work, and when I try, my mind just wanders. So what I do manage to accomplish, is I end up thinking about, and contemplating everything that ever happens to me. Everything I see or read, or hear gets thought about over and over and over. I end up thinking about everything far more deeply than anyone I know. The whole reason I am smart, is just because I never stop thinking. It is also why I can't work. I can't set myself a goal and expect to accomplish it.
People will say they love me, and in the same breath wish that my flaws would be fixed. Which just sounds like all they really love is their idea of me. Some perfect construct that doesn't exist, and never will. What they want is my potential. Not my reality. They don't want me, just what they think I could be.
I didn't really understand it when I was younger, but I do now: Everything people have all praised me for, exists because of everything people condemn me for. My flaws aren't just a part of the whole package. They are largely responsible for why I am who I am. I wouldn't be me without them.
My high perception? My ability to notice and remember details most don't? That's because I'm very sensitive to stimuli, and it's why I hate taking showers or baths and have crappy hygiene.
My high intelligence and knowledge? That's largely because I can't focus on anything I'm not interested in. I can't make myself do work, and when I try, my mind just wanders. So what I do manage to accomplish, is I end up thinking about, and contemplating everything that ever happens to me. Everything I see or read, or hear gets thought about over and over and over. I end up thinking about everything far more deeply than anyone I know. The whole reason I am smart, is just because I never stop thinking. It is also why I can't work. I can't set myself a goal and expect to accomplish it.
People will say they love me, and in the same breath wish that my flaws would be fixed. Which just sounds like all they really love is their idea of me. Some perfect construct that doesn't exist, and never will. What they want is my potential. Not my reality. They don't want me, just what they think I could be.
Saturday, December 06, 2014
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Monday, October 20, 2014
Not Simply Double Standards
I've read complaints that when men are abused by women, it's not treated as seriously as when women are abused by men. They complain about double standards. That doesn't really explain what's going on.
When a woman is in trouble, the socially accepted solution is for a man to help/save her. When a man is in trouble the socially accepted solution, is for him to solve the problem himself. This is why people will react so very differently depending on who does the oppressing, and whom is being oppressed.
People will laugh when a man is abused, not because they think it's okay to abuse the guy, but because they think it's absurd for him to not fight back. They will try to goad him into standing up for himself, condemn him for his weakness, and demand that he solve his own problems.
People don't laugh when a woman is abused, because what happens is exactly what they expect to happen. They expect women to just take the abuse and not fight back. They expect men to abuse. It's not funny, because everything is exactly how they believe things are supposed to be.
It's not that men and women are held to different standards, it's that there's one standard being applied to everything: Men are in charge. It's not Feminism refusing to help the men. It's the Patriarchy refusing to.
When a woman is in trouble, the socially accepted solution is for a man to help/save her. When a man is in trouble the socially accepted solution, is for him to solve the problem himself. This is why people will react so very differently depending on who does the oppressing, and whom is being oppressed.
People will laugh when a man is abused, not because they think it's okay to abuse the guy, but because they think it's absurd for him to not fight back. They will try to goad him into standing up for himself, condemn him for his weakness, and demand that he solve his own problems.
People don't laugh when a woman is abused, because what happens is exactly what they expect to happen. They expect women to just take the abuse and not fight back. They expect men to abuse. It's not funny, because everything is exactly how they believe things are supposed to be.
It's not that men and women are held to different standards, it's that there's one standard being applied to everything: Men are in charge. It's not Feminism refusing to help the men. It's the Patriarchy refusing to.
Saturday, October 18, 2014
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Sunday, September 14, 2014
Dungeons and Dragons: Players vs Dungeon Masters
http://community.wizards.com/comment/51039976#comment-51039976
An insightful post about the nature of running a D&D game, and how player and game master desires can conflict.
An insightful post about the nature of running a D&D game, and how player and game master desires can conflict.
Friday, September 12, 2014
Ship Happens - AMV
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8Tc7MH5ZXbg
Was browsing AMVs, this one made me laugh.
If you don't know what Shipping is in this context, check out TV tropes: http://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/Shipping
Was browsing AMVs, this one made me laugh.
If you don't know what Shipping is in this context, check out TV tropes: http://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/Shipping
Wednesday, September 10, 2014
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